Why leather for a third anniversary
Three years in, the gift is meant to stand for durability and protection, and leather is the material that visibly improves rather than merely surviving. A full grain bag deepens in color and softens with every year it is carried, so it keeps marking the years after the third. That is the argument behind the tradition, and it is a good one.
Initials, or the date
Initials are the classic, but for anniversaries we are often asked for the wedding date. Put the date in the order notes, for example 06.14.23, and we will confirm it fits the panel before we press. Roman numerals sit beautifully in a blind press.
| Finish | Looks like | Best on |
|---|
| Blind press | Letters pressed into the leather, no color | Every color; the one that never dates |
| Gold foil | Warm metallic letters | Tan, cognac, chestnut and chocolate |
| Silver foil | Cool metallic letters | Black, charcoal, navy and oxblood |
Gifts for her
The Marlow tote ($185 to $209) is the most given bag we make. For a handbag, the Hollis hobo and the Ashby shoulder bag ($185) and the Rydal satchel ($205) are the dressier choices; the Kendal bucket bag ($175) and the Tilly mini ($145) are the playful ones. The Ludlow crossbody ($165) and the Wells camera bag ($185) are the everyday choices. See all leather gifts for her.
Gifts for him
The Thirsk men's crossbody ($195) takes a tablet and a day's papers; the Hexham large sling ($175) is the one for travel and weekends. The Lorne work tote ($199 to $225) suits either of you if the bag is for the office. See 3rd anniversary gifts for him.
Both of you
Two bags in the same leather and color, each with the other's initials, is one of the nicest versions of this gift. A Marlow and a Thirsk in chocolate, or a Ludlow and a Hexham in cognac, look like a pair without matching exactly.
Timing
Every bag is made to order. Smooth leather and suede bags leave the workshop in 3 to 5 working days, hand woven bags in 4 to 6, and a monogram adds one working day. US orders then travel 3 to 5 working days by tracked express courier, and they ship duty paid, so there is nothing to pay on the doorstep. If the date you are buying for is less than two weeks away, ask us first and we will tell you honestly whether it will arrive in time.
Every bag can come back within 30 days, monogrammed or not. Stitching is covered for life and hardware for five years, which outlasts quite a few anniversaries.
What to check before you buy an anniversary bag
Choose the shape your partner already carries rather than the one you like best; a bag in the wrong shape stays in the cupboard. Check the size against what they carry every day, which the product pages list. If you are unsure of color, a mid brown such as cognac or chocolate suits almost everyone and shows the patina that makes a leather gift meaningful. And leave room for timing: with a monogram, allow about two weeks from order to doorstep.
Other leather anniversaries
Leather is the third anniversary on the traditional list, and some lists also give it to the ninth. Whatever the year, a full grain bag with the date pressed inside works for any of them.
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