Match the shape she already uses
The hard part of buying a bag for someone else is that shape is a habit, not a taste. Someone who carries a crossbody will not switch to a tote because you bought a nice one. So look at the bag she uses on a normal weekday. If it hangs across her body, choose a crossbody bag. If it sits on one shoulder, choose a shoulder bag or a hobo. If it is big and open, choose a tote. If she carries it by the handle, choose a handbag. Getting the shape right matters more than getting the color perfect.
Gifts by budget
| Budget | Bags |
| Under $150 | Tenby mini crescent $125, Mabel clutch $135, Tilly mini top-handle $145, Juno zip tote $149 |
| $150 to $199 | Buxton suede crossbody $155, Ripley saddle bag and Ludlow crossbody $165, Kendal bucket bag $175, Wren small $179, Hollis hobo, Ashby shoulder bag, Wells camera bag and Marlow medium $185, Ludlow woven $195, Lorne medium $199 |
| $200 and over | Rydal satchel $205, Marlow large $209, Wren regular $215, Lorne large $225 |
Color and initials
Look at her jewelry. If she wears gold, choose a warm brown such as cognac or chocolate, with gold foil initials. If she wears silver, choose black or a deep color such as oxblood, with silver foil. If you are unsure, a blind press suits every color and never dates. Our hardware is solid brass throughout.
If you cannot work out her style
Choose a small crossbody such as the Ludlow or the Tenby. It is the most versatile shape, works over a coat or a dress, and does not depend on a clothing size. If the gift is for a wedding anniversary, see 3rd anniversary leather gifts.
Timing, delivery and exchanges
Every bag is made to order. Smooth leather and suede bags leave the workshop in 5 to 7 working days, hand woven bags in 4 to 6, and a monogram adds one working day. US orders then travel 3 to 5 working days by tracked express courier, and they ship duty paid, so there is nothing to pay on the doorstep. If the date you are buying for is less than two weeks away, ask us first and we will tell you honestly whether it will arrive in time.
If you get it wrong, she has 30 days to exchange it, monogram or not. We would rather she has the right bag. Stitching is covered for life and hardware for five years.
Gifts by occasion
For a birthday, choose the shape she carries most and a color a step away from what she owns, such as oxblood or olive for someone who already has a black bag. For an anniversary, the tradition for the third year is leather, so see 3rd anniversary leather gifts and consider pressing the date. For a graduation or a new job, a work tote that takes her laptop. For a mother or grandmother, a shoulder bag such as the Hollis or the Ashby, easy to carry and easy to open.
What to check before you buy her a bag
Strap drop decides whether a bag sits on the shoulder over a coat, and about 9 inches or more does. Weight matters more than people expect, so check the empty weight on the product page. Look at the closure: a zip is more secure, a flap is quicker with one hand. And check that the leather is full grain, the only grade that will look better in five years than it does on the day she opens it.
Related collections
See women's leather bags, leather handbags and women's crossbody bags, or every personalized leather bag.